Raising an Only Child: What the Research Actually Says
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Most worries about only children are decades-old myths. Here's what the research actually shows — and the few things worth being intentional about.
The 'spoiled only child' myth
Decades of research show only children score the same as peers on social skills, generosity, and life satisfaction. The stereotype is louder than the data.
What to be intentional about
- Regular peer time outside structured activities
- Letting them be bored without you
- Letting other adults co-mentor
- Avoiding adult-level emotional disclosure