Morning Stomachaches and School Anxiety: What's Really Happening
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The stomachache is real. The anxiety driving it is too. Here's how to take both seriously without making either bigger.
Gut-brain, not made up
The gut and brain share the same nerve highway. When the brain is anxious, the gut clenches, cramps, and complains. The pain is genuine.
Telling a child 'it's just nerves' usually backfires — it implies the pain isn't real.
What to say and do
- Validate the body: 'Your tummy is telling us something'
- Get curious about the day, not the pain
- Use breathing as a tool, not a test
- Talk to your pediatrician if pain is daily or severe