Autism and Rigid Thinking: Building Flexibility Without Force
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Rigid thinking is a comfort strategy, not a character flaw. Build flexibility by lowering threat, not by demanding it.
Why rigid thinking exists
When the world feels unpredictable, fixed rules and routines become a safety net. Take the net away too fast and the body reads it as danger.
Building flexibility gently
- Tiny, predictable variations within familiar routines
- 'Plan A and Plan B' language used daily
- Low-stakes practice when no one is dysregulated
- Celebrate the flex, not the outcome