Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria in Kids: A Parent's Guide
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If small feedback turns into a tidal wave of shame, you may be seeing RSD — one of the least-talked-about parts of ADHD.
What RSD looks like
RSD is an extreme emotional response to perceived rejection, criticism, or failure. A small comment can feel catastrophic.
It often shows up as sudden rage, intense shutdown, or a dramatic spiral that seems wildly out of proportion to the trigger.
How to respond
Don't argue with the size of the feeling. The feeling is real even when the trigger seems small.
- Lower your voice and slow your face
- Acknowledge the pain, not the proportion
- Wait until calm to discuss the original event
- Build a private 'we love you no matter what' phrase